Monday, February 16, 2009

Vagina Day, Lasagna, and Goat Herders

Valen--err Vagina Day was rather uneventful. I didn't wanna be a complete grouch so I made candy baskets for home and the roomies..It was cute. Mom surprised me with one of my favorite foods EVER! A Lasagna:

MmmmmMMMmm..BITCH!
(yea I took the first piece! LOL)
After I tore into that deliciousness I left to find a dress for this Friday. But wait, it'd help if I tell yall why i'm looking for a dress..DUH!..Ok...............

[Sherman Klump]I got myself a date, Friday night at 8, it will be so great, he might be my mate....(well maybe not) [/Nutty Professor]

Yup..I have a date to the university ball/dance/semi-formal whatever you wanna call it..This guy that I occasional see, we'll call him Activist Guy, has been on me for the last few mths. Activist Guy is an Urban Studies major and really active in the community, politics, and all that jazz. He always has some type of "call to action" on campus. He's even going to Africa in a couple months. I dig...I digs...But when he asked me to go I was all like:

Lovely: "Meh, how much does it cost?"
AG: "Don't worry about it..just bring yourself"
Lovely: Oh..uhh..Ok..

I had lunch with him the other day and he told me a little about himself. I wasn't in the mood to be all "MmmHmmm..reallllly"....and "head nod-ish" but it was an enjoyable encounter. He turned out to be a pretty decent guy.

BUT (You know there's always a 'but')Only thing is......I don't even wanna say this cause it really has no relevance on how I feel about him .........buuut i'ma say it anyway: He has a small arm..handicap arm that is. Dang, why did I just feel like a shallow bitch saying that? But it's the truth. I didn't notice it until I saw him a few times because he carries himself so well and most of the time i'm looking at his cute face. At first I was uncomfortable but he doesn't seem to mind cause he joked about pop locking and droppin it at the dance "at least with one arm" as he put it lol. Sweet with a sense of humor..Hmm..We'll see where this goes.

CHILE PLEASE- He's a nice guy so I figured i'd give him a chance. I'm tired of all these Semi's...ya girl needs a goat herder.

P.S In case you're wondering..No, I didn't talk to SJ on Vagina Day..really wasn't expecting too so it's cool.

9 Lovely Opinions:

IntrospectiveGoddess said...

Girl I feel you on giving the guy a chance, I actually dated a guy who was missing three fingers on one hand, hey it was a coo guy, you can't judge on appearances alone, just enjoy yourself!

thehoustongirl said...

LMAO @ "I'm tired of all these Semi's...I need a goat herder"

KING OF ZAMUNDA!!

yea girl give him a chance so you can get a 'feel' of him (sounds good so far) but if he treats you right, girl snatch him up!!! nevermind the arm thing (i kno i'd probably feel the same way you did lol)

*smh* @ SJ tho. "it was all good just a week ago" but damn he couldn't at least shoot you a happy vday TEXT? pffft

Mimi said...

I literally laugued out loud at the little arm thing...I wasn't expecting that (Lawd forgive me)

I say "Let go, Let flow"...you never know what can happen.

Ms. Liryc said...

you never know what is going to happen with someone. I think you should give him a chance, you know the good men are scarce and far in between and if this activist guy is really about making changes you can always flow with that.. check out the pres.. he's about making changes too and who knows where he may be in another 20 or so years.. I'm just saying!!

As for the little arm thing, um... just don't worry about it. Its not even worth the second glance.

SJ... hmmmmmmmm Oh well.. whatev!!

Super Dave Van Buren said...

damn I want some lasagna now...

Eb the Celeb said...

i'm gon need you to fedex me a piece STAT!

lasanga is one of my favs and it looks oh so good!

lmao @ the coming to america reference.. they have played that mess on HBo over and over the past couple months and I watch it everytime. Hands down one of my fav movies ever!

YoungBlackBeauty said...

Ok I laughed too! LOL! All I could think about was Scary Movie 2: "Take my strong hand!" My bad. But yea give it a try. You may have fun!

PRIMO said...

That Lasagna Looks Bomb..


No She Didnt Say Scary Movie 2 LMAO

But Seriously I Say Give it A Chance!

SimplyB said...

Yum! Me love lasagna too.

Give him a chance. He may be just in time for a spring/summer romance.....