So Friday, I went to my mothers house thinking if I was around family i'd cheer up. NEWSFLASH: It didn't work. In fact I think it got worse. That night SJ sent me a video of halftime at the Nuggets/Wizards game (he knows i'm a huuuuge b-ball fan..hold ur heads my Celtics!!!) So in the funky mood I was in I asked him why the hell he sent me that randomness. Shoot I wanted to be there to watch that good ole' fashion blowout! He says: "to let you know i'm having fun"..
Ummmm. If you're having that much fun why the hell did you feel the need to take time out of your "fun having" to send me a video of you "having fun"?
Does that make sense to yall?
*pause*
Didn't think so. So what i'm thinnnnking is that he must really miss me so he's putting up a front to make me think he's getting over me. My my my..the games we play. In the next few texts he suggested that I come to DC because he's off on "All-Star Weekend". But every estrogen filled person with a vagina knows that that's Valentines Day weekend. Hmmmmmmm...So maybe he does miss me.But wait..You just friend zone-ded me, remember? Idk, i'm so confused yall. The girl in me wants to go in hopes that he'll change his mind about the whole "friend zone" thing; but the woman in me knows that most likely won't happen. I've been debating on whether or not I should go. Ever since he told me he still has feelings for the "ex" it's turned me off wishing for anything more with him. So why the hell should I torture myself with delusions of grandeur. No, no, no..I'm not going. If he wants me he's gonna have to make the effort because i'm tired of settling for anything he throws my way...
CHILE PLEASE- He wants his cake, pie, ice cream, danish, cinnamon roll, chocolate bar...and eat it too--right off of my poom poom.
Monday, February 9, 2009
Still sitting here...
Posted by Ms. Lovely at 10:37 PM
Labels: Decisions, Drama, Relationships, Sexy Jamaican, Sigh, Vents
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Wow.
He's boggling my mind as well. Why invite a "friend" to spend Valentine's Day weekend (disguised as AllStar Weekend) with if you're still feeling your ex?
The woman in you seems to be giving some good advice.
:)
Gyrl yes, please dont go visiting that foo, like you said if he wants to see you let him make the initiative dont waste your money going to see someone who only has lukewarm feelings.... whats that saying? Dont make someone a priority when they only view as an option.......
niccas n flies!!! I tell ya if u rub'em both together u wouldn't get a nickle!
I say do you! Take that sensible gut intuition and run with it. If he decides to show u that he will take the initiative to remove u from "friend" status to "gal", then by all means go, but don't go only to return more jacked up with emotions about him then u already have now.
Do u boo, do u!!!
Hahhaa, he wants a lot of sweets huh?!
But yea, he could miss you or he could just want some of that valentine's day ass.
But n e hoo...I agree with you. You're the woman. He should make you feel special, come see u, if he sooo badly wants to spend time together.
Men, smh.
LOL @ "He wants his cake, pie, ice cream, danish, cinnamon roll, chocolate bar...and eat it too--right off of my poom poom."
But As hard as it might be I agree. You shouldn't go. It'll only torture you and send mixed signals.
@Suga- yea that's what i'm saying..tired of being second place-willingly
IGoddess- you hit it right on the head
Creative- I don't think i'll get upgraded to gal status..mostly he just wants to chill (and sex)..blah!
@AM- LOL@ Valentines Day ass. You know that's the reason! ugh
@YBB- yea mad mixed signals..My heart can't take that shit anymore
Listen to your women's intuition. It never steers you wrong. Like Dana Gilmore said, "Never put your heart in your mind's position". The heart is deceitful. Even if he never grows up out of that game room, you still need to do what's best for you. Don't regress back. Yes it's going to hurt like hell because there's an emotional attachment and he's like a bad habit that you just can't kick. Just realize your worth and everytime you he comes to mind, just think: "Damn I can do better!"
I agree with everyone in here. I'm glad you didn't go by EMOTION and went over there. Now me, I wouldn't lie; I've been in situations like that and was actually delusional enough to think that I could 'bypass' the feelings and just do the do [thinking like a dude lol]
but all of that just makes it worse [like other commenters said here] so just DO YOU and hold out for that dude that's gonna go out of his way to show his appreciation for you.
LMAO @ "All Star Weekend" ; he a little slick one isn't he?! who is he trying to fool? LOL
He wants you to go see him the same weekend which just so happens to be valentines day...AND you're just a friend...Chile Please(your words, not mine.lol)
@Starr- Yes! I forgot all about Dana..thanks for reminding me
@Houston- I've gotten to point where i'm tired of settling ya know..and yes he is a ole slick ass eel ass nicca.. make me sick lol
@Moody-Chile Please is the first thing I thought when he said that mess lol
♥ you guys!
Take it from a Man, he might miss you but he might miss the idea of you even more. Be Careful! Don't go! Send him some tulips! Don't go! He might just be dealing with the horror of NOT having you! That is the selfishness Men can go through. Until he let's you know that he wants YOU keep your distance.
Just stopping by! Drop in and see me.
Mista Jaycee
WOW! SJ is trippin! He better stop sending all those MIXED signals. He needs to say how he REALLY feels...IDK, he's confusing even me :/
told u it will be ok, u should work on patience
Yeah I Agree Wit Everyone Else....
DONT GO!!! Especially After Being Friend Zoned-ded-ed.
Make Him Come To You
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