CHILE PLEASE- just thought you should know that.
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
The Cosby Effect
Posted by Ms. Lovely at 5:03 PM 7 Lovely Opinions
Labels: Activist Guy
Monday, November 23, 2009
Right now.
I'm in a good place. Here's a few reason's why:
- I found my 1st job as a RN!!!!!!! Making double the $$$ I thought i'd be making. Schwweeeeeeet!
- ActivistGuy and I are still going strong. We've had a few small spats but nothing serious at all. We're always out and about doing stuff and I wonder how I ever was content with being single.
- I'm just generally happy all around. I remember this past summer after graduating when I didn't have a job how depressed I was. I was a walking rain cloud. A real Debby-ass-downer. Now i'm just a big ole ray of gay sunshine! (no lesbo)
- I started a personal challenge to grow my hair. My hair is already a decent length so I am not bald-head scallywag! But I love wearing my natural hair. Plus who wants to have itchy weave sweaty scalp during sex? No bueno! I've stopped perming, weaves, and all that extra crap. I wash and condition every week and make sure it's wrapped every night. So far it's grown a 1/2 inch longer in 6wks. YAY me!
- I've simultaneously stopped my bad habits: Popping bumps on my face, playing with my nipples, and picking my teeth when nervous. Ugh, I know :/
Posted by Ms. Lovely at 9:49 PM 13 Lovely Opinions
Labels: Activist Guy, Jobs, Random
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Honesty Check
- There are good men out there. I found one. And this is coming from a former "Ni**as Ain't Sh*t" board member.
- I need to start taking responsibility for fu*cking up. Even for small things. I admit I can be a spoiled brat sometimes.
- I do care what people think about me. Just not as much as I used too.
- I hate being the picture taker at events because I always end up in like 2 fuggin pics with my head cut off..WTF?! I'm gonna start leaving my Nikon home..hmph!
- The 5lbs I gained went straight to my hips & thighs. Though I pretend not too like it..I'm happy I finally got ass now!! Woot Woot!
- Activist Guy loves politics and all that gub'ment stuff. I have limited interest. When we go to these political events I feel out of place, bored, and oggled by creepy old men.
- Activist Guy talks waaaaay too much. That's my baby..but sometimes I wanna tell him to STFU! ..This brings me to #8
- I should probably talk more.
- Rough sex doesn't feel good. We just do it for you. Which brings me to #10
- After I cum. "Wrap it Up B!"
Posted by Ms. Lovely at 5:44 PM 10 Lovely Opinions
Labels: Activist Guy, Random, Relationships, Sex, Vents, WTF
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Goat herders>>>Semmi Ass N*ggas
Sooo..from the comments about the Activist Guy announcement it's clear that you all wanna know when this happened. Well my lovlies, here goes:
Well, it actually happened about 2 weeks ago. Initially, I started going to his house to watch Trueblood because my cable was cut off. I was still feeling the aftershocks of SJ's latest saga so I was wary of AG's advances. After awhile I said 'what the hell, let me see where this goes'. Since then, we've spent the last 2 months together. This past month we've been together almost every day. I met some of his family, and last week, his mother. They all like me. My family likes him. Mom lovvvvves ♥ him after I bought him to church with me
Everytime we went out ppl would ask if we were together. After replying "No" ppl would say:
"Well you should be! You two make a cute couple!"
LOL. So after the FB status changing debacle..one day I just said "fuck-a-hater" changed my status and profile pic.
Now, i'm not gonna lie..I was shaking like a fiend w/no crack. I felt like I was missing out on dating and the single life. Felt like my playette card was being revoked. Felt like my hotness stock was going to plummet :/
Felt like I needed to stop making excuses. I got over and changed it. Besides, if this doesn't work out I can always change it back, right?? Afterward, I saw a few meriod laden status' from past flings and a few msgs from guys I didn't even know liked me. Too late!!!
Activist Guy is nerdy, obsessed w/politics, wears Doc Martin's and has a funny laugh. Some would even call him weird. But he's my weirdo! He is also thee most handsome, caring, considerate, loving man I have ever been with (not to mention his large penis *Kanye shrug*). He is dedicated to his work in the community and is a role model to inner-city youth. I'm done with the jerks, frat boys, & pretty boys. Ole "I am in desperate need of a manicure" ass n*ggas.... Ole "Please do not take my pocket change" ass n*ggas.
No more crying a ocean for a nilla who wouldn't bat an eyelash for me.
And, I don't like getting all religious on here but i'm truly blessed to have him in my life. I don't know where this will go but I am strapped in for the ride with a smile on my face.
CHILE PLEASE-You diseased rhinocerous pizzle can go choke on Soul Glo!
Posted by Ms. Lovely at 3:10 PM 13 Lovely Opinions
Labels: Activist Guy, Relationships
Monday, October 12, 2009
Attention All:
Activist Guy is my boyfriend.
CHILE PLEASE- I even changed my facebook status :)
Posted by Ms. Lovely at 6:14 PM 7 Lovely Opinions
Labels: Activist Guy, Relationships
Monday, September 28, 2009
Meriods.

My new made up word. Do mention me on twitter if you plan to steal my sh*t..I'm just sayin....
What are the origins of my new favorite word not in the English language (yet) you might ask?
Well, over the last say uhhhh...ALL MY LIFE on this earth I have come to the conclusion that men undergo some sort of crisis or variation of the "The Curse" every month. You know Adamn was like: "Damn, Eve..you know you ain't gone finish alladat by yo'self"
From interrupting pre-pubescent double-dutch games to interrupting Taylor Swift, men have evolved from annoying in childhood to annoying-er in adulthood. Uncle Mo comes to visit those XY chromosomes when Aunt Flo kicks his ass for gettin all "I'ma let you finish BUT..."
Now i'm not talking about the typical male behavior..I.e: Leaving the toilet seat up, ignoring me during a game, perstering me for sex all thee time, farting, belching, cheating..ectera ectera and so on and so forth. Meriods are different. These Ralph Tresvantish fits come out of absolutely nowhere. Men may not endure the painful cramps, bleeding, and random cravings of hunger for lays chips and only green peanut M&M's (ok, maybe thats just me :/) but meriods exist. They are like Lady Gaga's penis. We all know its there, we just haven't seen it (and don't want too *shuddersx10*)
Case in point: AG had a Meriod last night when I told him I wasn't coming over after spending thee entire weekend with him(met some of his family..that's a whole notha post chile). My excuse?: I'm waiting for UPS to deliver my new phone (my G1 screen went funky on me), AND I was dead ass tired. He damn near had a hissy fit and told me that he see's that my phone is "more important" and that I have two choices "wait for my phone, or come and let him peen poke"(ok he didn't say the last part but you know he was thinking that sh*t!)
MERIOD alert!!!! MERIOD alert!!! Pop 2 Midol, shove a Tampax up that ass and call me in the marnin!
Ugh. I seriously had no idea where that spike in estrogen came from and I didn't like it uno bit. Later he called me and told me that he was "just joking" but the soprano in his voice indicated otherwise. I chaulked it up as his first Meriod with me and gave him a pass.
That's just one incident..Plenty more where that came from. But ladies what are you experiences with MERIODS? Men, please feel free to join in with yall meriod havin asses.
CHILE PLEASE- You try squeezing something the size of a small watermelon out your pee-pee hole!
Posted by Ms. Lovely at 10:01 PM 10 Lovely Opinions
Labels: Activist Guy, Meriods, Relationships, Sigh, WTF



